Because introverts are typically good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness, we are attractive to emotionally needy people. Introverts, gratified that other people are initiating with them, can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.

Adam S. McHugh
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There are certain personality traits that are attractive when looking for a partner. The personality traits of an extrovert are an obvious example, but introverts can also be attractive and desirable. Introverts tend to be good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness. Gratified that other people are initiating with them, introverts can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.

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